Family As Clients, A Bad Idea

Recently a fam­i­ly mem­ber asked for help with a design project. I agreed, but it brought back to mind the last time I worked for fam­i­ly. I’ll share it.

A few years ago my uncle was run­ning for Senator of an East Coast state. My aunt, nephew, grand­moth­er, and a few oth­er uncles were help­ing with the cam­paign. My aunt, whom I respect a great deal, asked for my help. She hired me to pro­duce the can­di­date’s plat­form brochure and help build his brand iden­ti­ty. Four of my fam­i­ly mem­bers were work­ing in the can­di­date’s cam­paign office. My fam­i­ly believed in my uncle, but did­n’t believe in his staff’s abil­i­ty to present a pro­fes­sion­al image for the can­di­date on paper.

The can­di­date came from a long career in non-profit orga­ni­za­tions, one large one in par­tic­u­lar. Most of his elec­tion staff were from the non-profit world as well. If you’ve nev­er dealt with non-profit orga­ni­za­tions as a ven­dor or con­trac­tor, you prob­a­bly have no idea how dif­fer­ent they are oper­a­tional­ly than for-profit cor­po­ra­tions. Out of fis­cal neces­si­ty, they work with old soft­ware and com­put­ers, and, more impor­tant­ly, the peo­ple of a non-profit try to wear as many dif­fer­ent hats as is human­ly pos­si­ble. The CEO’s assis­tant like­ly answers the orga­ni­za­tion’s phones, sets appoint­ments, takes nota­tion, fix­es the copi­er when it breaks, inter­views can­di­dates, and keeps five-year-old copies of Microsoft Publisher and Microsoft FrontPage on her Windows 95 machine to cre­ate the orga­ni­za­tion’s print and web lay­out needs.

Work for the Senator-hopeful began as it usu­al­ly does: His staff sent me copy (text) for the brochure along with their work­ing logo and their thoughts on the lay­out. The last was fair­ly slim, leav­ing most of it up to me. All the better.

I did my mar­ket research, learned about the can­di­date and his poten­tial con­stituen­cy, his oppo­nents, their plat­forms, and so on. Now, armed with a thor­ough under­stand­ing of the can­di­date and his mar­ket, armed with their orig­i­nal copy, I laid out a design for the brochure.

I sent these off to the client in Acrobat 3‑compatible PDF for­mat. Non-profits are always behind the times in terms of com­put­er soft­ware and hard­ware. Many are still on Acrobat 2 (cir­ca 1995). The very first thing the client (some staffer) said when I answered the phone was a com­plaint about send­ing a proof in PDF.

I asked: “Do you have Acrobat Reader ver­sion 3 or lat­er? Version 5, released in 2000, is the latest.”

Staffer: “We have ver­sion 4 point some­thing. But we need the brochure in Word for­mat so we can make changes.”

Me: “Ah. I under­stand. I did­n’t cre­ate the brochure in Microsoft Word. Word does­n’t have the tools nec­es­sary to cre­ate a pro­fes­sion­al brochure of the cal­iber the can­di­date needs. Instead I used a pro­fes­sion­al pro­gram specif­i­cal­ly designed for cre­at­ing brochures; its a pro­gram called Quark.

If there are any changes nec­es­sary, please write them direct­ly on a print-out of the brochure. Then fax it back to me. For me to make changes I’ll need a sig­na­ture anyway–”

Staffer: “We need the Word doc faxed to us.”

Me: “[Staffer], I under­stand your request, but… Let me try to explain. The orig­i­nal con­tent you sent me was in Word for­mat. The brochure, how­ev­er, is not. It can’t be opened by Word. There isn’t a way to con­vert it to Word.”

Staffer, dead­pan: “So you’re refus­ing to fax it to us in Word?”

Me: “No, no, no. Not all. I’m not refus­ing any­thing. What I’m say­ing is that if I e‑mailed it to you, you would not be able to open it Word. Word does­n’t work for mak­ing brochures. It’s a ham­mer, and this is a screw­driv­er job. It won’t work.”

Staffer: “Look, the can­di­date needs you to fax the Word file right away so we can make changes and fax the file back to you so it can be printed.”

Me, giv­ing up on the lan­guage bar­ri­er issue: “I under­stand the urgency. Of course. Give me ten min­utes and I’ll fax it to you.”

Inside of ten min­utes I had print­ed the Quark file direct­ly to my computer-connected fax machine. The staffer received a black and white hard­copy of exact­ly what he had had on screen. Then he called me back.

Staffer: “If you’re not going to help us–”

Me: “I don’t under­stand. I faxed you the brochure as requested.”

Staffer: “We need you to fax us the brochure so we can edit it in Microsoft Word.”

After blink­ing a few times I respond­ed mild­ly and patient­ly: “I under­stand now. I’ll e‑mail the Word doc with the orig­i­nal text you had sent. Make your changes in that, send it back to me, and I’ll place it into the brochure lay­out.” I decid­ed to give up on the sig­na­ture I usu­al­ly require for clients to make changes; the e‑mail dia­logue will be suf­fi­cient if there’s ever a ques­tion of who autho­rized the changes. “If there are any lay­out or graph­i­cal changes you need, please write those down in your e‑mail or you can just tell me over the phone now. I have the brochure in front of me. اسرار لعبة الدومينو الامريكانى

Staffer: “E‑mail won’t work. We need you to fax the Word doc­u­ment so we can make changes to it inside Word. حصان سباق

I blinked a few more times, strug­gling to find a way to explain to this over-worked, computer-illiterate per­son the con­tra­dic­tion and phys­i­cal­ly impos­si­ble request he was mak­ing. “[Staffer], a fax is a phys­i­cal copy that can’t be opened by Microsoft Word. By con­trast, an e‑mail copy can be opened by Word since they’re both elec­tron­ic files. If you’ll just give me your e‑mail address, I’ll have the Word doc in your hands inside–”

Staffer, irri­tat­ed and speak­ing as if to a petu­lant child: “Why are you being so dif­fi­cult about this? I told you e‑mail won’t work. Let me spell it out real sim­ple for you: You need to fax the Word doc­u­ment to me so I can make changes in Word. If you can’t do the job… How did you get this job to begin with? We should have hired some­one who had some pre­vi­ous expe­ri­ence with this kind of work, some­one who went to arts school. Obviously you don’t know the first thing about graph­ics or computers–”

Ok. I’ll admit it. I was get­ting pissed. Honest to what­ev­er, I tried like hell to remem­ber this per­son was sim­ply com­put­er illit­er­ate, and that, as the ven­dor, it was up to me to bridge the igno­rance to progress the project. Still, he ques­tioned my pro­fes­sion­al­ism. That piss­es me off.

Me: “Do you know the cam­paign man­ag­er, [my aunt]?”

Staffer: “Of course I know her.”

Me: “She hired me. Before this con­ver­sa­tion goes any fur­ther, I strong­ly sug­gest that we bring her into it. She’ll explain why what you’re ask­ing for is not phys­i­cal­ly pos­si­ble. It’s like you ask­ing me to fax you an orange to eat.”

Staffer: “[Campaign man­ag­er] is too busy. I’m not going to bring her into a sim­ple mat­ter of you refus­ing to do what you were hired to do. سباقات الخيل السعودية Are you, or are you not, going to fax me that Word doc? Yes or no?”

When I tried to answer with a word that did­n’t begin with a “y” or “n”, I was imme­di­ate­ly cut off with a curt “just answer ‘yes’ or ‘no’.” I was get­ting pret­ty steamed, too. Of course I did­n’t let this come through in my voice. I am, after all, a professional.

Me: “No. I real­ly want to fax you the Word doc­u­ment, but I can’t fax you an orange to eat.”

Staffer: “What are you talk­ing about? I want you to fax a Word doc­u­ment so I can edit it in Word. I don’t want a fuck­ing orange!”

Me: “They are the same thing. It is equal­ly phys­i­cal­ly impos­si­ble to fax you an orange as it is to fax a doc­u­ment that can be edit­ed, with­out retyp­ing or scan­ning, in Microsoft Word.”

Staffer: “So you refuse to fax it?”

Me: “[Staffer], we’re at an impasse. I’m going to call [the can­di­date’s] cell phone and talk with him about this. He and I will sort it out and–”

Staffer, angry: “How do you have [the can­di­date’s] cell phone number?”

I ignored the ques­tion and fin­ished my state­ment: “–And then he’ll explain to you how we’ll be able to get files back and forth until the brochure is com­plet­ed. In the mean­time, please mark your changes on the copy I faxed you.” He start­ed to speak again, but I polite­ly end­ed the con­ver­sa­tion and hung up.

Ten min­utes lat­er I was talk­ing to the cam­paign man­ag­er, my aunt. I relayed the exchange to her, iden­ti­fy­ing the staffer and the flaw in his log­ic. She, know­ing that I knew what I was talk­ing about–I was the Creative Director for a well-known design agency, and I had more than ten years pro­fes­sion­al expe­ri­ence in design–told me to pro­ceed with the oth­er jobs in the con­tract (logo, brand iden­ti­ty, etc.). I would hear back from the cam­paign short­ly with a way to deal with changes to the brochure.

Two hours lat­er the can­di­date, my uncle, called. As usu­al, he was con­de­scend­ing and treat­ed me like a five-year-old. He refused to let me speak about the impos­si­bil­i­ty of what his staffer want­ed. He turned it around on me as my alleged igno­rance of how non-profits and polit­i­cal cam­paigns run. He asked me to “work with” him and “put in the extra effort to make this work.” If I “made it work,” he said, some­day I might be able to build a career in graph­ic design.

John,” I said in an inten­tion­al­ly con­de­scend­ing tone. “I have a career in graph­ic design. I man­age a staff of twenty-six graph­ic design­ers, as a mat­ter of fact. I report direct­ly to the CEO of the com­pa­ny. What’s more, I man­age major accounts for the com­pa­ny, includ­ing Playboy Enterprises, per­form­ing much of the cre­ative design on that account myself. While I don’t make as much per year as you, I make rough­ly four times what [staffer] makes. I’m [xx] years old. 

I’m also used to deal­ing with clients who have some under­stand­ing of the basic dif­fer­ences between a piece of paper and a flop­py disk, some­thing your staffer does­n’t. My aunt, your sis­ter, asked me to help you out on this because she said, and I quote: ‘John needs a pro’s help. What he has is fuck­ing piti­ful.’ If you’re hap­py with fuck­ing piti­ful, John, then stick with it. See how far it gets you in the race to the Senate.”

He began to say some­thing else about how every­one tries hard and he needs me to stop being so dif­fi­cult and just do what his staff needs. I stopped him. “I think we’re at an impasse here, John. You will for­ev­er resent me and see me as the seven-year-old boy who’s I.Q. beat your son’s by thir­ty points. You’re so hung up on being supe­ri­or that you’re shoot­ing your­self in the foot. I’m a pro­fes­sion­al accus­tomed to deal­ing with pro­fes­sion­als. You and your staff still have a long way to go to reach that point. Therefore I’m dis­charg­ing your account. I’ll have–”

John: “You’re ‘dis­charg­ing’ my–?”

Me: “I’m fir­ing you, John. I don’t want to do busi­ness with you or the peo­ple you choose to hire. I’ll have the files your staff orig­i­nal­ly sent returned via e‑mail. Then our deal­ings will be con­clud­ed. This is the sec­ond time I’ve had to fire you as my client. There won’t be any fur­ther instances of that. In the future, when you try to take the cheap road and exploit fam­i­ly for your cre­ative needs, please look to some­one oth­er than me.

I wish you luck in the race for Senator, John.” I have to admit, I was very tempt­ed to add: “Were I a con­stituent, know­ing now how you run your busi­ness­es, I would­n’t vote for you.” I did­n’t. Though I believed whol­ly in that state­ment as it formed in my mind, I bit my tongue. I was­n’t going to stoop to per­son­al attacks upon my uncle while dis­charg­ing my client. Instead I sim­ply said, “take care,” and hung up.

I called my aunt, explained to her that I had just fired John. She was dis­ap­point­ed, but she under­stood. She believed John would make a good Senator, but she knew how arro­gant he was.

The brochure was nev­er pro­duced. In the state’s lead­ing news­pa­per my uncle’s brand iden­ti­ty was char­ac­ter­ized as “evi­dent of his involve­ment in non-profit” organizations.

Incidentally, my uncle was out of the race for Senator before the vot­ing began. The papers and the peo­ple liked him, but he was­n’t well-rounded and pol­ished enough to be a seri­ous can­di­date. With some more expe­ri­ence, they said, he might be able to do the job.

When the elec­tion was over he moved back to D.C. to con­tin­ue his lead­er­ship of the non-profit orga­ni­za­tion he had found­ed ten years before.

4 thoughts on “Family As Clients, A Bad Idea

  1. Chris

    I tend to agree.
    I was asked by fam­i­ly to design/make over a night c;ub persona.
    to keep it short.… all hell broke loose and of course, the design­er was blamed for all things out of his con­trol. I was con­tract­ed to to design lay­out, and col­or schemat­ics, uni­form and tourist wear… all from across the coun­try. The par­tic­i­pants in the local area were sup­posed to nego­ti­ate the con­tra­tors work. For some rea­son that ball wound up in my court. I did my best to explain to all involved, that I could not meet with con­struc­tion and design­ers from 1800 miles away.
    Needless to say, from the fam­i­ly mem­bers involved, every­thing fell apart, and I too, end­ed up fir­ing them as clients.
    Live and learn.

  2. CatsPaw

    Oh.My.God. Just read­ing this, I want to fax myself right through the wires, recon­sti­tute, and beat the liv­ing hell out of that ass and oth­ers like him. And peo­ple think graph­ic design must just be “so much fun.” Heeee!

    Fine sto­ry.

    =^..^=

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